A Note to New Grads (Part One)

by emily on May 23, 2012

Ahh, to be a rookie again.

One of the first questions I asked 700 women in the research for my next book was, “In your current or most recent position, do you work with or hire college grads?” The question didn’t ask respondents to distinguish between male and female grads, which is important to note, because – frankly – the results weren’t all that great. Here’s what they said:

While 68% of respondents work with or hire new grads, only 26% felt those grads were prepared for the realities and demands of the workforce.

Blimey.

Roughly three quarters of the 700+ executives who took the survey don’t believe the new class is cutting it. Moreover, this was obviously a question that struck a chord because more than half of survey participants left a comment on it. I’ll start with the positives.

There’s no doubt employers understand new grads are incredibly tech-savvy, have a spectacular ability to multi-task, and bring a lot of energy and enthusiasm to their jobs.

But here’s where it got dicey.

Out of the 328 comments on this question, 104 respondents specifically mentioned they believed new grads felt “entitled” to (as-yet) undeserved rewards and otherwise demonstrated a low work ethic.

Okay, so it’s already extraordinary that – on this survey at least – almost three-quarters of women executives don’t believe new hires are well-prepared for the workforce, but it’s doubly shocking that a full one-third of the folks who left comments listed work ethic as the primary cause.

So…this is the part where you (and I mean everyone – not just new grads) need to get honest about whether you are putting in the time and displaying the commitment required to counter feedback like this and really succeed in your field.

Let’s slice this up a little bit more.

When survey respondents were asked “Of the choices below, which skill do you feel is MOST lacking in new grad hires….” here’s what they said:

Communication skills – 30%

Critical thinking and problem solving – 27%

Taking initiative – 25%

Follow-through – 18%

In Part Two of this post, we’ll dive in to the top two, i.e. communication skills and problem solving. Stay tuned!

 

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Alan Shelton calls himself a "quintessential corporate manager" engaging in the seeker’s quest. His new book, Awakened Leadership, is out this week.

One of the topics I want to explore more on this blog is how spirituality fits in to our careers. So when I discovered Alan Shelton, former corporate exec turned spiritual seeker was launching a book on this very topic, I knew we had to connect. Below Alan shares his thoughts on the inner journey of leadership, why it matters, and what it takes to be a spirit-centered leader.

What inspired you to write Awakened Leadership?

The inspiration for my book lies directly in my own personal history. As a developed corporate executive at a fairly young age, I began to experience the desire to examine myself internally. At the time, there seemed to be no place in the corporate world that I loved, where such development could take place. So, I chose a path in another world to do that work. Upon returning to the corporate world I discovered that current leadership developmental theory and work were based on exactly the same internal work that I had gone to India to discover. At that point, I determined to make available to anyone that was in the same position I was, a resource and a story that could be the doorway to that kind of work. It turns out that in today’s global world this kind of developmental work is becoming more and more sought out.

Your book focuses a lot on the “inner journey” of leadership. Why do you feel this is important?

In the beginning of most people’s leadership careers, the focus is on understanding the content of business and leadership acumen. This is done by looking to the outside and accumulating the particulars of these disciplines, and this is exactly the way that it should be. But there comes a time when emerging leaders and executives understand that their own behavior often is the obstacle to initiatives that they are asked to lead. Upon that discovery, it becomes obvious that the inner journey of leadership is the one that has the possibility of shifting those internal unconscious and reactive behaviors that get in the way.

You talk about the importance of moving “beyond self-mastery.” What do you mean?

I often call the stage of learning that points itself to the outside – horizontal learning. That is to say the emerging leader absorbs the facts, figures, diagrams and particulars of knowledge. There comes a time when every leader recognizes that they are approaching the boundaries of obtaining this kind of knowledge. When this happens, one can say that they have achieved the level of self-mastery. But, as I said before, the intuitive can enter the landscape of most executives is such that they understand there is more yet to achieve. They can look around and see that truly seasoned executives are actually wise men that have encountered their inner demons. The result is, that for these wise leaders, those internal behaviors no longer color or influence the actions that they take as leaders on the corporate playing field. They have successfully entered into the world of vertical learning, or internal learning, and now lead with perfect transparency and vulnerability.

Do you find traditional leadership techniques employed by much of corporate America (i.e. assessments, graphs, etc.) effective in today’s leadership landscape?

Traditional leadership techniques as employed by corporate America are effective to a point. That point is the attainment of self-mastery. Beyond that, the only place leaders can go to continue their seasoning is the developmental path.

Is spirituality something leaders should have ‘on display’ at work?

Spirituality is something that lives on the inside of each leader. It is actually who they are. There is no need to display one’s presence, as all who come in contact with leaders of this kind sense it. In my experience, a seasoned leader whose authenticity is naturally born of the encounter with their unconscious and reactive characteristics cannot help but be seen as spiritual. Have you ever noticed that when you enter a company with leaders of this sort that everyone in the building knows who they are and can easily approach them as a resource? This is spirituality in action blossoming from the inside out as a result of the hard work of rooting out all obstacles that would stand in the way of their own awakened leadership. In my view, any company would be, and is fortunate when such a leader is on board.

For more information on Alan, please visit his website or follow him on Twitter.

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Don't miss The Conversation tonight at 11pmEST on Lifetime

What were you doing when you were 14? Most women at least were probably somewhere between milestones that included a first crush and first training bra.

Not Amanda De Cadenet.

At 14, she was already a celebrity in her native England, hosting a wildly-popular TV show that gave her unprecedented access to the biggest stars of the day. Just five years later she married one, walking down the aisle with John Taylor from Duran Duran, and becoming a mom all before most people in this country can legally order a gin and tonic.

Now, almost two decades later, De Cadenet is back on TV with The Conversation and – just like her Bri-american accent – she is at the center of two worlds. Because for all the “girl power” Amanda – the one who drives a motorbike and has not only graced covers but has a gift behind the lens as well – there’s clearly a woman who has learned a thing or two about life. Below she shares how being young and famous shaped her self-esteem, the inspiration behind her new show, and why extraordinary pain is often the catalyst to extraordinary growth.

{Side note: I’m thrilled to be a new career contributor to The Conversation website! Check it out here.}

1.) Do you feel that fame at such an early age helped or hindered your self-esteem?

At age 14 you are just beginning to work out who you think you are and being famous is a huge distortion of reality and its not healthy for  a young person to be considered more special than their peers. So, I would say it hindered my self esteem but in later years gave me a great perspective that I wouldn’t have if I hadn’t experienced that.

2.) Recently you said that freedom is “not being bound by my wounds.” What did you mean by that? 

Only when we are sick and tired of being sick and tired do any of us do something different.

3.) Tell us about The Conversation. How did this new show come together? 

Out of my own need to hear stories about women that were honest, authentic and solution-based. I couldn’t find role models that I could look to and say “If she made it through, then I can.” And when I say “make it through” I am talking about the many aspects of a woman’s life, from the joyful to the sad, challenging, confusing, liberating…all of it.

4.) You mentioned in an interview that you originally wanted to do the show to understand how other women handle life’s challenges. What have you taken away from the discussions so far?

That we are all essentially dealing with the same stuff, we are not that different from one another. We all want love and to feel safe, wanted, cared for, to like our selves, our bodies, to have families and feel okay in the world.

5.) If you could go back and give one piece of advice to your 20-year-old self, what would it be?

How about my 14 year-old self? That is  A Conversation question for sure. I would say all the things that cause you pain today will serve you wisely one day and help you have more compassion for people who are also having a rough time, so don’t wish the hard times away – they are there to teach you if you care to listen.

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